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March 29, 2009

EBay: The Impossible To Spend Gift Certificate

One of my Christmas gifts was a $50 gift certificate for eBay. I've been trying to spend it for three months completely unsuccessfully. This is probably for a few reasons:

Ebay_slots 1) I refuse to spend over $50 (what the gift certificate is worth).

2) I have bid three different times on Scrabble tiles (future Too Cute Tuesday craft) and I'm always outbid at the last second. There's no "buy now" option for what I want. I think my idea for the tiles is not in my crafting destiny.

3) I successfully bought a pair of earrings a couple weeks ago and was sent the wrong item by the seller. They asked me to forward the wrong merchandise to the right person (priority, with delivery confirmation—which I totally did like the sucker I sometimes am). In turn, they sent me my earrings, some extra jewelry I don't even like, oh, and they gave me my money back.

So three weeks, 10 bids, and one pair of earrings later, I still have a $50 gift certificate for eBay.

I've resorted to looking for things like cosmetic type items that I use and obscure movies that like to own. It's just kind of funny how difficult spending "free" money has been in this case.

Of course, I could've sold this gift certificate from online (like, um, on eBay or any number of other websites) or I could have bought gifts for people. But I really wanted to be selfish on eBay. I guess I still have my chance! Any ideas?

Image from: http://ebaystrategies.blogs.com

March 24, 2009

Too Cute Tuesday: Seed Infused Paper

Spring has sprung here like most everywhere else in the Northern Hemisphere. Spring and Maine means snowstorms with 6 inches of snow or less, a fine layer of dust on everything, and eventually, if we wait long enough, flowers.

Tct-seedpaper15 This week, we've combined the hassle of papermaking with the springness of seeds. Write a lovely note to your favorite person on one of these papers for a recyclable gift that's also quite timely. This week's idea is from Thrifty Fun (via Dorrie) and this month's Better Homes And Gardens (via Nicole's company breakroom).

Tonight we were joined by Sue, who promises to be a regular. That's right, we've hooked another!

Materials
Shredded paper, soaking in water in a bowl
Blender or food processor
Newspaper
Spoon
Screen, preferably two pieces
A shallow tub of water
Sponge
Seeds
*Bill Nye's papermaking kit

  Tct-seedpaper17Cocktail of the day: Monaco (Grenadine syrup, pour beer on top, fruity perfection)

1. Have your good-natured friend shred and soak paper for an entire day. Spread newspaper on your work surface. You will thank yourself later.

2. Put the pulp in a blender or food processor with lots of water. Note: Too much colored paper or newspaper will make your pulp really gray. Just something to think about.

3. Pour the pulp into the shallow tub of water over one of your screens. Lift the screen gently out of the water. Sprinkle the seeds on top of the pulp.

4. Using the other screen on top, push the excess water out of the pulp. Blot with sponge to absorb even more water.

5. Place on newspaper to dry.

6. Turn your non-crafting friend into a virtual papermaking machine. Have her magically come up with our own ideas for upcoming Tuesdays. Realize that seed infused paper is transformational.

7. Cleanup. Find pulp everywhere even after you've cleaned up. Realize that making a mess this part of the fun.

So cute!

*Not necessary but does come with shapes (called dreckles, there is a whole vocabulary that comes with this kit!) that you can shape your paper into.

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February 21, 2009

Good For The World: Send Some Love To A Soldier

I first "met" Roger Keene (AKA Roddy) via email through my job at the newspaper. Roddy is a CPL in the US Army, but is ready to pin on the rank of SGT any day now. He is currently stationed in Fob Kalsu, in Iraq.  He had left a comment on our newspaper website and was trying to organize people to send care packages to troops. I was impressed by his above and beyond dedication to his project and I wanted to let more people know about it.

How and why did you decide to take on matching stateside civilians to deployed soldiers?
I have been stationed in the Phillippines, Korea and Japan in my Marine Corps years and I really know what letters from home mean to people. There is a lot of media attention paid to the military actions here (in Iraq) and in Afghanistan and, as expected, it is not all positive. I know a lot of Americans feel proud that we are going to such lengths and at times going there with such a personal expense.

I just wanted to cut the filter of the middle man and hear directly from those people that support the Americans that work so hard every day. It's good to hear from "home", from the states and from people that are aware that we are here I guess.

Since we last talked, what kind of response have you gotten? Too much, too little?
The resopnse has been overwhelming!! My wife and I have dedicated many long hours to making certain the soldiers I work with are recieving some sort of mail. My wife continued sending addresses well after my deployment as e-mail requests have popped up.

Does sending a package to a soldier really make a difference?
I think so, I mean it does to me. I saw a package this week from the VFW in Harrington. I know absolutely no one there, but they sent me stationary to write home, some hard candies that I handed out and I'll tell you this... I smiled the whole time I was handing out candy. Then I went home and wrote my wife on stationary that was all nice.

Yes it helps a lot, but I am not really looking for packages and free stuff... I simply put this together in order to allow my peers here to hear from Mainers and other good people and get postcards from Acadia, hometown newspapers etc. Just something to say that someone thought of us and cares.

If I'm interested in sending a soldier a package this, how do I get ahold of you?
I am giving out my e-mail address and responding (or my wife is responding to be honest) as soon as we can.

I'm stuck on what to send. What are some great things to put in a package that I wouldn't necessarily think of?
Baby wipes, beef jerky, and letter or postcards to send home I think are the best. If I'm on a 20-60 hour mission and I get hungry, slim jims and beef jerky are the best thing ever. I like to write so postcards and stationary are also great.

What are some other ways we on the homefront can help?
There are so many organizations out there asking for stuff to help with. These are great organizations, but just let me say this. Contact your local VFW or Auxiliary. Find out who from your community is out here with us and just send a hello, a newspaper or something simple and inexpensive. It's about knowing people care. Do that and I bet you make somebody's week a whole lot better!!

When do you come home? What's the first thing you want to do when you get there?
I promised after I let my little girl beat me up I would buy her a fun hat and I promised my wife that we would ride the motorcycle through Acadia. I am going to rent a log cabin on the water and just sit back for a minute and take in the "home" that I have been missing.

So if you want, send Roddy an email and he'll hook you up, or check out your local military organizations. Because sending a package (mine was around $20) is the least we can do!

Some tips from the US Postal Service...

February 14, 2009

Secret Admirer?

Ah, Valentine's Day... not a big deal in my life. This year though I have a little mystery on my hands...

After my usual Saturday morning work, I got back to my apartment and found a valentine from my mom (awh!) and one from an anonymous person. It had no postage on it so it was dropped off by someone who knows where I live. And it's homemade.

I contacted everyone who I thought might have made it and it wasn't any of my usual suspects. I posted an inquiry about it on Facebook and no one has come forward yet.

So if you left me this valentine, please let me know because it's freaking me out a little!

Valentine

February 13, 2009

Fashion-Forward Friday: An Awesome Gift Idea

One of my friends got her boyfriend the best Valentine's Day gift I've heard about in awhile. It's thoughtful, not something that's limited to this holiday, and something you can either give as a gift or just keep for yourself for cool decoration. This has been a couple weeks in the making so it would be too late for Valentine's Day this year but it was by far the most stylish thing I could think of this week.

First, my friend bought a nautical chart of Puget Sound/Seattle (which is where her boyfriend is from). You can order charts off the NOAA website or you can visit your favorite marine salvage store (or eBay!) if you aren't particular. Cost: $20 

Then, she ordered a frame kit online which she assembled herself with a little muscle and wood glue. You can find lots of choices by doing a quick online search for frame kits. Remember if it doesn't quite fit, you can always crop the chart if you need to. Cost: $15

Finally, she went to the hardware store and had a piece of glass cut for the frame. A lot of these frame kits seem to come with acrylic but a glass frame really classes it up I think. Cost: $20

Depending on what size you go on the frame (the frame I'm talking about was pretty big), the cost can vary but what a way to display something that's both thoughtful of the person and beautiful to look at. You could do this with a nautical chart or a map, maybe where you traveled together (for you coupled folks) or a place that you plan to travel in the coming year (if it's a gift for you).

I'll take a photo of it when I get a chance...probably after the guy gets a chance to open his present!

December 20, 2008

Shameless Promotion: The Avoiding Wrapping Christmas Gifts Edition

I've been done my Christmas shopping for over a week but the chore of wrapping still looms over me. The good news is there is plenty of fun things online to keep me nice and distracted!

32 Things You Can Do With Beer @ Men's Health
This link accidentally happened to me but whether you get stuck with a six pack of beer you don't like or just enjoy random information, some interesting reading.

A New Way To Make Money By Taking Online Surveys @ Sense to Save and Counting My Pennies
I always pass on via this blog ways to make extra money when I hear about them and, while I haven't done this program, I trust these ladies who have. It may be worth a look to make a little extra cash.

Good Wines At A Great Price @ GRS
Whether you are looking for a hostess gift or a Christmas toast, check out these tips to picking a good wine. Or do a Nicole standby with a Polka Dot Reisling or Bully Hill red.

Tips For Traveling This Holiday Season @ Intelligent Travel
If you are looking for last minute travel deals (or just ways not to get screwed over while traveling), there are some good ideas here. Me, I have one option to get where I need to go and that's driving. .. using tips for good gas mileage of course!

(And if you are traveling to a major city this holiday season, this blog also has an in-depth look at celebrating the holidays at places like Paris and New Orleans.)

An Economics Christmas Poem @ WSJ
A little nerdy but festive and applicable to current events. It's the WSJ, what do you expect?

Seven Lessons Learned Working Retail @ Wisebread
As you become a crazed shopper, remember not to take it out on your poor cashier. In my only retail experience, I just remember people being disappointed by my wrapping job (we offered free wrapping). I wanted wanting to say out loud "well, it is free, lady!" but instead smiling politely and rewrapping.

The Best and Worst of The Credit Card Industry @ Master Your Card
If you are thinking of shopping for a new credit card, like myself, check out this comprehensive list from Consumer Reports, compiled by this fantastic blog.

Christmas Gifts For Foodies @ Cheap Healthy Good
Food is always a good gift. Here is a guide to food and food prep gifts.

Wrapping Gifts Without Wrapping Paper @ Squawkfox
Hmm... maybe I can avoid wrapping all together...

Happy Saturday night to those of you who are having tons of fun or getting way more done then I'm avoiding!

December 14, 2008

The Christmas Shop Local Challenge

It's Cheaper and Easier Then I Thought

Early this Christmas season, I decided that I was going to buy all my gifts locally for several reasons.

1) My family owns a small business. (I do too!) It would seem at least a little hypocritical to not support others in my same situation.
2) My Best Buy fiasco clearly illustrates what it can be like to do with the corporation.
3) Living in the community that is heavily dependent on summer tourism, the least I can do is help support the businesses that serve year-round residents like myself. I appreciate not have to drive half an hour to buy milk, or a cashmere sweater for that matter. (Milk happens a little more often in my world.)

I was a little worried about how shopping local this was going to go. Should I buy my brother-in-law that gadget I saw an online gift guide? Will I be able to find the perfect gift for my mother in some small specialty shops?

I realize that two things have happen for me to have success at buying local: I had to be flexible (what! no, insert-specific-item here in purple?!?) and also actually visit storessee what they had. (And as a personal finance blogger who almost never goes shopping, some of these people would never have seen me otherwise.)

I was pleasantly surprised at the selection of items, the reasonable prices, and the friendliness of salespeople who were genuinely appreciative of my business.

Here are a few moments I relished as I finished up my Christmas shopping today:

  • reading through funny children's books to find the funniest on
  • laughing with some fellow drug store shoppers at the now available Clapper Plus
  • running into a potential friend I met last week wearing a really fun hat
  • finding a really great book/gift store that has all kinds of things that I'd go back for (I know, I am not buying books at the moment but I can dream, right?)

All in all, there is no long mall drudgery or battling crowds to buy my Christmas gifts, which made spending money oddly relaxing for me. As a bonus, I actually got to know my community a little bit better and still stayed within budget.

So whether you are completely finished with your Christmas shopping or have yet to start, I urge you to consider a local purchase as your next purchase.

Some good reasons (economic or otherwise) to buy local...
Something to inspire you to shop at a local bookstore...

December 02, 2008

Too Cute Tuesday: Recycled Paper Coasters

My mom bought me a cool little gift a few weeks ago: coasters made of recycled foreign newspapers. I added them to my drawer of cute little things I tend to have: candle sticks and napkin rings and other entertainment cuteness. That's right, this stuff gets a whole drawer in my small kitchen because these little things make me smile when I use them.

Tct-coasterinspiration But as I looked at the coasters again yesterday, made of basic elements with recycled materials, I thought, pfff! I can make that! So tonight I recreate something with a potential gift-giving possibility. (If you have enough coasters, you can make a trivet or tray!)

On another unrelated but actually kind of related note, I noticed a Women's Day article (no judgement please) about some weird put-lemon-juice-in-everything diet. Now, the fact that WW has a new diet every issue with a normal person that isn't fat anymore on their cover makes me a little suspect but, eh, I like lemons and willing to passively see if lemon juice/zest revs up my digestive system and makes me lose 5 pound in a week! (That' WW's exclamation mark and not mine.) So tonight I'm drinking a Disco Lemonade, mostly due to it's name but also because I may be the next star of Woman's Day if I do.

Let the crafting begin!

Materials
Tct-coasterrolling Newspapers and magazines I'm recycling anyway (if you're looking for newspapers, visit your local paper for back issues... I'm sure they'd be happy to give them to you!)
Ruler
Scissors
Modge Podge or spray adhesive or, if absolute last resort can't find anything else, a glue gun($5-$10 depending on weapon of choice)
Pencil (to twirl the strips of paper around, you'll see in a minute)

Cocktail of the Day: Disco lemonade—orange liquer and vodka (equal parts) plus lemonade (I'm adding some lemon zest, WW style)

1. If you don't have T.V. put on some crafting upbeat (dare I say disco?) music. Make your lemonade.

2. Cut pages or parts of pages into rectangles of equal sizes (10 strips will make one coaster). Wrap part of your pencil on one end of the page to start the party. Spray adhesive or Modge Podge or hot glue the page as you roll, baby roll. You are essentially making a strong strawlike piece of paper. Set aside to dry. Repeat with the other pieces of paper. (Attention: Glue out of a glue gun is hot!)

Tct-coasterafter 3. Now that your straws are ready, glue them together to form a little raft. While it dries, confuse the dog by discoing with your disco lemonade.

4. After your "raft" is dry, you can finish the edges with strips of magazine/newspaper but you can also try yarn, fabric, or anything else you think would look nice on the edge that you may have around the house. Adhere to the edges and tada!

Ok so the real things looks a lot better but with some practice, I can see the TCT equavalent looking pretty cool. Just remember a couple things:
1. Shorter strips are easier to roll.
2. Hot glue should be a last resort.
3. Something slightly thinner then a pencil would be ideal for rolling, but I can't quite think of what that object would be.

Happy crafting!

November 11, 2008

Too Cute Tuesday: Flower Arranging

Today I got some flowers from a wonderful person in an attempt to cheer me up. I had another craft planned for TCT but decided that arranging these flowers may be what I was up for this evening.

Flowersbefore I got them wrapped in paper, beauty pagent style so I needed to style them. Here's what I did.

Materials:
Bouquet of flowers, from a nice person or from yourself
Scissors
Vase or vaselike container
Water

Cocktail: Another one of Jen's good red wines, Don Ramon

1. Have your nice coworker put the flowers in water while you have a quick cry in the bathroom.

2. Realize the niceness of the gesture. Realize the flowers in the vase look like a bad haircut but smell lovely.

3. Send thank you email. Get through rest of workday.

Flowersafter 4. Drive home and get a smaller vase ready.

5. Pour a glass of wine. It has been a long day.

6. Take the flowers out of the vase and seperate the flowers from the greenery. Taunt your small dog with the greenery before throwing it out.

7. Cut leaves off the bottom part of the flowers that'll be sticking in the water. The will get moldy and gross so you might as well prevent the problem before it happens.

8. Cut the flower stem short enough to fit in the vase, sticking out by a few inches. Start by cutting a little, because you can always cut more. Place the flowers one by one in the vase. (Tip: Cut and place the bigger flowers first; you can always fit the smaller ones around them)

9. Trim more green if you have to. Trust your stylizing instincts.

10. Enjoy your handiwork and think briefly you've got enough talent to work at a florist.

Photos: Before, the mullet like flowers are short in the front and a party in the back
After, a more polished cut is prettier

October 01, 2008

Lakeside Catalog Gifts (Includes Bonus Lesson on Meaning of "Primitive")

My mom and sister were raving about Lakeside catalog the last time I visited. They even made me take home a copy of it. I personally thought the fake 80s jeans comme lounge pants were quite a find for the 80s loving guy in my life so I took the thick catalog with me.

I just started looking through it the other day. Eighty percent of the catalog costs less then $20. It seems to be a lot of knick-knacky stuff, with a strong preference for the "primitive" style of decorating. Now I just tried to look up a definition for primitive and I couldn't find one. While there isn't one online, my sister has taught me the concept by showing me examples in hers and my mother's home decorations. Check out the photo illustration for some examples of primitive and not primitive:

Primitivevsnot

I think you get it. I bet my sister is rolling her eyes as you read this. (I got a little obsessed with pointing out primitive objects to her a few months ago, to the point of annoyance I think.)

So if you like primitive, check out Lakeside Catalog. But don't worry, Lakeside has lots for those who aren't so primitive. Here are ten of my picks from the Lakeside catalog.

1) 80s style lounge pants for your favorite 80s man
2) Little Miss or Mr. Men books for your favorite kiddo (or friend who embodies one the qualities)
3) Taste of Home cookbooks for your favorite cook
4) Book of Useless Information for that guy or gal who has (or knows!) everything
5) AKC Stuffed Animals for your favorite pet who likes to rip the heads off cute plush animals
6) BYO Laptop sleeve for your favorite techie
7) Scrapbooking supplies for your favorite crafter
8) Three canvas photo prints for your favorite nature lover
9) Detoxifying foot patches for your favorite health nut
10) Fake croc wallet clutches for your favorite fashionista

Since we are all going to be spending less money on holiday gifts this year, I'm guessing stores like Lakeside will become more popular.

If you have any discount catalogs you like, do share.

September 23, 2008

Too Cute Tuesday: Duct Tape Wallet

I know that I have this facination with duct tape shared by many people. I covered an unfraying storage container with duct tape a few weeks ago. I've covered other things before. I love the industrialness of duct tape. And then I learned that duct tape came in "flamingo pink". Hmmm...

Finishedducttapewallet A guy I worked with this summer had a rocking duct tape wallet. A coworker offered to pay him $20 for it. Of course, my famous mantra inhereted from my mother is "Pfff! I can make that!" The work day wore on and I completely forgot about the silent challenge to myself.

So today, I was cruising ReadyMade for ideas for my Too Cute Tuesday and found both a craft and cocktail on the site. I refound my duct tape wallet and hard apple cider. I was too lazy to make my own cider so I bought some but here's the recipe if you'd like to make your own.

Cocktail of the Day: Hard Apple Cider. Tis the season so drink that fine nectar!

Materials:
Duct tape in the color you desire
Scissors
8 1/2 by 11 inch sheet of paper (thicker is better, you'll see why soon)
Ruler
velcro strip (approximately 8 inches total, I used two four inch strips)

(Instructions based on those on those on Readymade website but modified slightly for ease of use)

Ducttapewalletstart 1. Cider is yummy. Nothing says fall quite like it!

2. Lay flat the 81/2” x 11” sheet of paper. Measure off an approximate 11” strip of duct tape and attach to the long edge. Do the same with a second strip, overlapping the first by approximately 1/2”. Repeat until both sides of the paper are covered. This is the most labor intensice part of the whole thing so have a few cider swigs to celebrate!

3. To give a clean edge, attach a 10” strip of tape across one of the 8 1/2” edges so that half the tape’s sticky side is visible on top and 1” is visible on each side. Snip and fold in the corner flaps and fold over the horizontal strip. Repeat at the other end.

Velcrostrapsonducttapewalle 4. You just worked hard! Have a few sips of cider. Now fold over the entire sheet, leaving 2” at the top to create the closure flap.

5. Close the sides with some duct tape folded over. (Keeping the duct tape lined up keeps the project looking classy!)

6. Add the velco strips to the flap part of the wallet to hold things closed.

Extra credit: Use this same method to make a little pocket on the inside to hold cards.

So give this easy and cheap (under $5) craft a shot or, if you'd like a different design, check out ReadyMade or do a little web search for duct tape wallets. Aren't you crafty?

August 26, 2008

Too Cute Tuesday: Recycled Paper

When I was a kid, I wanted to do two things in my life:
1) Be a writer.
2) Save the world from environmental destruction.

Both dreams were encouraged by my family: notepads, pens, and books for Dream One and various environmental and science-y gifts for Dream Two. I got environmental test kits, books about saving the environment, and craft projects where I could reuse objects and make new things.

I had a kit to make recycled paper which I loved. The whole thing originally involved ruining a blender, messing up the family basement, and drenching a bunch of towels but I came up with some nice recycled paper. In my stage of being too cool for crafting which coincided with a series of moves, the kit disappeared. Bummer.

The good news is I think I've come up with an easier (and less messy) method based on the kit and my life experience. Finally something to do with all the paper waiting to be recycled in my basement! (I apologize for a lack of photos; the digital camera is still in the process of being replaced.)

Materials:
a small section of screen (you can buy about a yard of it cut at your local hardware store for less then $2)
blender
bucket
water
paper (I recommend 1:2 newspaper, regular paper ratio. Used at least a few bits of colored paper to make things interesting. Remember to use every piece of paper on both sides first before recylcing it!)
scissors and/or paper shredder
old towels
sponge

Coffee with a kick (insert Irish creme, coffee brandy, etc. here)

1. The day before you craft, go to the hardware store and confidently acquire any screen you don't have. If you've been doing Too Cute Tuesday for awhile, the folks at your neighborhood store should know you by now and may ask what you are up to. (Note get hard screen, which is easier to work with though a soft screen works in a pinch or if you accidentally order the wrong kind like I did.)

2. Get home and shred paper while doing something mindless, like watching a television show or listening to the radio. You can use your hands, scissors, a paper shredder, or a combination of both. You want your paper pieces to be small. Put the pieces in a bucket.

3. Add water to the bucket until it is lightly covering the pieces of paper. Put somewhere where a child, animal, or clumsy adult can't knock it over and let it sit for a few hours or overnight. (This is an optional step but allows your blender to work less hard later in addition to helping get some of the ink out of the paper you are using.)

4. Day 2: You are ready to craft! Brew some coffee (though if after 6 pm, perhaps a decaf would make more sense).

5. Gather supplies you need in a central location near a water source while the coffee is being made.

6. Add Irish creme or coffee brandy to your coffee. As the nights get cooler, your little warm cocktail will help you relax... and craft!

7. Put paper from bucket into blender. A slotted spoon will help the transfer. See the grey water? Your paper will be less grey from the soaking.

8. Put fresh water in the blender with your paper and blend. It'll look disgusting but that's how you know it's right.

9. Put an old towel down with your screen on top. Spoon your paper sludge evenly onto the screen surface. Put more screen on top and blot with sponge, wringing out the water periodically. You want to get your pulp as flat as possible; don't worry about smooth edges. (Note, you will go through an insane amount of towels if you aren't so good at letting the water drain from the pulp before spreading it on the screen.)

9a. Dealing with all this cold wet paper, allow yourself to warm yourself up with coffee beverage. Ah.

10. Once much of the excess water is off, transfer the "paper" from the screen onto a dry towel someplace where it can dry safely.

11. Repeat for as many sheets of paper as you like. Let paper dry overnight.

12. Day 3: Once paper is dry, you can trim the edges with scissors.


A multi-day project, sure. A little water logged definitely but that's what the coffee with a kick is for! The whole thing is, however, pretty low tech and a great thing to do with kids so they understand what is means to recycle paper. Plus you can send pretty notes to your friends on your fancy paper while you drink your Irish Coffee. Talk about warm wishes!

Happy crafting, especially if it's for the earth.

August 20, 2008

Seven Wedding Gift Ideas That Are Thoughtful...And Inexpensive

This summer, I haven't attended as many weddings as usual but since I am going to one next week, I've been thinking about wedding presents. Sure there are registries and gift certificates but I mean what gifts are really tried and true, a mix of something they want and something they'll use? Here are a few gift ideas that I've been considering for my friend that you may like as well.

1. Stationary. Sure paper is the first year anniversary but there is something elegant but a set of monogrammed cards with pretty address labels. They are sharing a life together and perhaps a name and address too so stationary makes sense, at least to me.

Runaway-bride-cake-topper 2. Go local and homemade with Etsy. Browsing my local Etsy store, I found beautiful ceramics that had I gotten on the ball a little earlier, I could have bought and had personalized in time! Darn!

3. Blanket or throw. People can always use extra blankets. A monogram can personalize things. LL Bean does a nice job with their throws but you can also try discount realtors for more luxurious materials like cashmere or down.

3. Make something yourself. A set of table linens, a subscription to baked good of the month club for a year (made by you), or matching sweaters (but not too matching!) can be a great way to show that you care.

4. Get them something they can do together. A picnic basket, a kite, and gift certificate to the local sandwich shop is a picnic date in a box. Think of other variations on the theme including a movie night, croquet day, or anything fun and novel the couple can do together to have a little fun.

5. Collect advice. Advice about having happy marriages can be video recorded or written and scrapbooked and presented to the couple as a thoughtful gift involving more then just you. Make sure you hit up the "important"people like the immediate family members and the wedding party. Ask the family if anyone is doing this first.

6. Digital frame. The new hip picture frame perfect for the people who are always off on adventures or who have a million pictures. Even if the couple already have one, I don't think anyone would complain about having another one of these. I found a couple on Tiger Direct for around $50 and I'm sure I could find a few more smaller ones in this price range.

7. Nice slippers for him and her. Their aunt probably bought them towels and their honeymoon location may have the really nice bathrobes but a nice pair of slippers says, "Relax, the wedding planning is over."

For more great gift ideas, see the Real Simple gift guide.

June 17, 2008

Too Cute Tuesday: Tattoo Your Towels

Want to make a nice gift that costs you next to nothing and impresses your boyfriend? How about some embroidery?

Sstowel I got the idea from Tattoo Your Towels. I was in one of those cute stores in the city of Portland Maine, the kind of fun and retro-feeling store where I loved everything but couldn't afford anything. Until I saw a $3 Tattoo Your Towels kit.

Tattooing tea towels seemed very domestic but hip at the same time. I liked the cute, tattoo-like designs and the craftiness of the project.

When I lived on Vinalhaven and had lots of free time, I decided one lonely but goal oriented evening to make Sean a present. My mother had bought me a ginourmous bag of embroidering floss so I got it out along with the cross stitch loop. A glass of wine and twenty minutes later, Sean had a tattooed towel.

He absolutely loves his tatooed towel and thinks I am so handy for making it. The good news is you can do this to your towels in a simple design (like a heart and initials) without kit. (Though the kit is pretty cool when you get good!)

Materials:
Needle ($1 for a bunch)
Embroidery loop ($5 for a whole bunch)
Differnet colors embroidery floss (total cost no more than $3)
Something to embroider, like a bathroom towel
Wine (optional)

Thread the needle. Sketch out a design to stitch (something simple). Stretch fabric into the embroidery loop. (Though you don't need it if you're doing a thick fabric like towels.) Stitch. If you need further instructions on the stitching, see this site for techniques. Drink wine. Be happy with your gift... and you have supplies to make a lot of them!

These towels not only impress not-so-crafty boys but can make great and personal gifts for everyone you know from parents to girl friends. And I'm hard pressed to think of other gifts that can be made in twenty minutes and at such a great price.

Happy Crafting!

June 10, 2008

Too Cute Tuesday: Fortunate Clothes Pins

Too Cute Tuesdays will be a semi-regular series about cute inexpensive things you can make as gifts for you or others. It's something new here at Breaking Even Inc. so let me know whether I should keep it or can it.

I recieved a thoughtful gift from a friend who somehow found a gift that encompassed two of my loves: cute things and Chinese food.

Fortunateclothespins These little clothespins came in a package and have little Chinese fortunes written on them. A cute hostess gift you can make? I should say so!

Not to disappoint but the fortunes that actually come in fortune cookies are too short and fat for the clothes pin. Therefore, there is a little more prep involved.



You'll Need:
Internet access and a computer
A printer and sheet of paper
1 piece of cardstock
Clothespins
Modge Podge or glue
Scissors (or one of those teeny scrapbook croppers—well worth the $5-10 it will cost you)
Small ruler

Go to a "free font" website like www.dafont.com. I picked Shanghai but maybe you'll see something better under "Foreign Look". Install the font on your computer. (It may be noted that my computer is about to die so I really have nothing to lose as far as accidentally installing something). Here's a link that tells you how to install the font on your computer, whether you have a Mac or a PC. (You can also use the fonts that came with your computer, though going through them all may make you feel a little insane.)

After you come up with some good fortunes, type them in the font. (One of my personal favorites: Be mischievous and you will never be lonesome.) Measure your clothespins to see what size you should make your little slip of paper. Print your fortunes. Crop them to size.

Glue the fortunes onto a piece of cardstock. This will keep the paper from bubbling. Then glue the cardstock to the clothespin.

You could make these occasion-specific and put them in a cute little fake takout container if you wanted to go all out. They can function as clothespins, chip clips, paper fasteners... You can even put a magnet on the back to make them fridge or file cabinet ready! I know, I'm so crafty... and now you will be too!

Stay tuned for other "I can make that!" moments on Breaking Even, Inc!

May 31, 2008

My First Visit To Trader Joe's

When I lived on Vinalhaven, I discovered Trader Joe's. No, there was no store on the island but my house was stocked: condiments, pasta, spices... all with this brand name on them. I later found out my landlord's wife worked for the company. He told me to eat/use whatever I wanted in the house (I was going to be living there full time for a few years) so I did. First the marinated peppers and then the whole grain pasta... by the time I left, there was a little salt and pepper left but that was about it.  
Trader Joe's was good but felt very unattainable to me. Primarily, it's a city thing (and not online because they want to be your neighborhood store). Since it is a larger city thing, there are none in Maine. I didn't think I'd ever get to one. 

Well that all changed today folks. I'm in Boston for the weekend and since I brought my car this time, I helped my buddy Ally go grocery shopping at Trader Joe's. 

First of all, the tropical theme kind of struck me. "Are they all like this?" I asked. It seemed to put the pizazz back in grocery shopping. Then I started looking through the aisles.

I went to pay and the price was very reasonable. For example, the Emergence-C I usually buy at my local natural food store is normally around $15. At Trader Joe's, it was $8. Luna Bars that are normally $1.25 at the natural food store were $.99. Trader Joe's doesn't use coupons of have sales; according to the website, they just try to buy direct, keep corporate costs low, and sell perishables when they are in season. The result is that I looked at the prices and in addition to seeing a low unit price, nutritional information was prominently featured. Cheap and good, just how I like my food. 

In addition to having some staples that I always need (like a Vitamin C beverage), Trader Joe's seems like a good place to go if you need some fun appetizer to bring to a party. Thai lemon spiced cashews definitely went in my cart and perhaps if you throw a party and invite me, I'll bring them!

So I was happy to help out a friend and have my first Trader Joe's experience. I would have liked to get more frozen stuff to bring home but next time, I guess I'll have to bring a cooler. 

Are you similarly in awe and admiration of Trader Joe's?

April 29, 2008

Want To Win Cool Movies?

Take Part In This Fun, Easy Contest!

Rachaelsandwich2As I mentioned about a month ago, I saw some fabulous films by Julia Radochia. She was kind enough to send me a copy of all her short films to be auctioned off. A few words from Julia: "I've written, directed, edited, produced/co-produced several short films that have been screened in festivals. My partner in filmmaking is Jeremy Ward who has not only helped me produce my films, but has also done sound, composed and performed music, as well as gaffed, ADed, etc. My films are: LIKE HIS FATHER, JIMMY'S HOUSE OF HUGS, SALLY'S DREAM HOUSE, EDDIE'S WINNING DATE, GO FAUX and I JUST WANT TO EAT MY SANDWICH. All have been in festivals, some more than others, with most of them having won at least one award. I'm also working on finishing up my more experimental/musical piece HAPPY AT HOME."

These funny, short films are funny and true to life and you need to get them through Julia if you want them (they are working on distribution). So what I'm saying is these neat films are an exclusive offer, and free to you if you win my little contest. 

In 250 words or less, write about your favorite form of cheap entertainment. It could be a hobby or game or even a website, basically telling us what is this cheap entertainment and why is it fun. Email submissions to nicole@breakingeveninc.com. In the subject line, write "I Want A Hug" (House of Hugs Production Company, get it?). Entries are due May 31.

The winner will have their entry published on this blog (linked to their website, of course) and get the movies in the mail. Good luck!   

Check out the House of Hugs Productions website to learn more about Julia and the movies...

December 15, 2007

In Praise of Homemade Gifts

A few years ago, during a period of unemployment, I decided to make my own Christmas gifts. I had my family and my then-boyfriend's family as well as friends who I felt I should give gifts to.   What followed was a period of frustration and exhaustive work that lasted the month before Christmas and ultimately helped me realize how much my time was worth. Allow me to explain.

One can do a simple cost breakdown to see the value of some sample homemade gifts. Here are breakdowns for some of mine:

What: Scarf
For: My sister
Raw Materials and cost: Yarn, $10
Amount of Time spent on gift: 10 hours (it was my first scarf, and a long scarf that involved fringe)
Value of Gift (materials + time compensated at minimum wage): $80

What: Candles
For: Mothers and sisters
Raw Materials and cost: gel stuff, wicks, containers to put candles in, $50. Used pots and oven in my mother's kitchen.
Amount of Time spent on gift: 3-4 hours
Value of Gifts (materials + time compensated at minimum wage)= $71-78 for four candles

What: Soaps
For: Everyone
Raw materials and cost: soap stuff, dye for soap (don't use food coloring; it will dye people's skin and make them laugh at you), fragrance, $15. Used molds from my mother's kitchen.
Amount of time spent: 2 hours
Value of Gifts: $29

What: Chocolates
For: Everyone
Raw materials and cost: Truffle materials, $20
Amount of time spent: 2 hours
Value of gifts: $34 for 8 small packages

I made more than this and a few more specialized gifts for close family. I calculate now that I spent about $200 on supplies including packaging to put my homemade gifts in (baskets, jars, bags, pretty ribbons, cards). I spent about 20 hours making the gifts, which doesn't sound like much, but the State of Maine values this time to be at least $140. My $340 was far from cheap, even though some gift recipients thought my gifts to be small trinkets (and they are, thankfully, no longer receiving gifts from me).

So after my experience, would I encourage someone else low on funds to make gifts for the holiday season? Maybe, but I certainly won't do it again. It is much less time and effort to go out and buy a gift, even an inexpensive one than it is to think of homemade gifts, research how to make them, and actually make them. It is also much more economical to buy that scarf in the bargain bin or those little candles for 50 cents each than to try to recreate them yourself.

So when I receive a homemade gift from someone, I feel a little more grateful than I would have in the past. Because good things take time and how valuable is something from the heart made with the hands?

Homemade gifts, I salute you but admire you from afar... Well ok, I am making something for my mom this Christmas. :^) What can I say, I couldn't resist...plus I know she appreciates it.

December 05, 2007

A Bookcase of Ones Own

Mybookcase_2 Yesterday, my long awaited bookcase was ready for me to put my books into it.

When my boyfriend asked me this summer what I wanted for our anniversary, I told him a bookcase. I've always had built-ins everywhere I've lived but in this house, there was no place to put my books. And I had boxes and boxes of books.

Some nagging and about $200 of supplies later (Sean's money, not mine), I now have a beautiful and ginormous bookcase that holds 12 boxes of books and still has room to spare. I have decided though that while I could very well keep all my books that it would be much better to share at least some of them by giving them away to friends one by one. And voila, a random act of kindness (a gift you could even say) that's free.

For the books I am giving away, I am writing them down in a notebook, title and author as well as my overall impressions. If I ever want to be reminded of a book that has left me, I only have to look in my notebook to be reminded.

I gave away my first book today. And it felt good. So if you get a book in the mail, don't be surprised. I'm actually trying to make your day.