Breaking Even

Link Roundup: Fortune Cookie Edition

I am a keeper of those fortune cookie fortunes, if only to remind me of universal truths and because I think they are so gosh darn cute. I have a few posted by my desk and some links to share so I thought I'd combine the two.

Be mischevious and you'll never be lonesome.
Wisebread has an awesome guide about doing your own Halloween makeup. Even if you don't get around to sewing a costume, you can at least do crazy makeup. Warning: this post has sound when you open it. 

The world is ready to recieve talent with open arms.
Almost Frugal has some serious talent for making homemade gift bags. And stay tuned for a series of holiday craft posts from Kelly and other crafty bloggers (myself included).

You will have good luck and overcome many hardships.
Sadly, I missed Blogger Action Day on October 15 due to the sheer bad timing of my vacation. A lot of bloggers did take part though, and Wisebread's entry about poverty fighting superheroes was fantastic. There are also links in the post if you want to get involved with helping others (and possibly yourself) overcome some hardships.

The joyful energy of the day will have a positive effect on you.
Sense to Save sees the positive sides of this recession, mainly the fact that it's putting into question some American values that aren't the best. Could agree more, Kacie.

Your mentality is alert, practical, and analytical.
A Dollar A Day posted a Declaration of Financial Independence posted on her bank ING's website (called We, The Savers).  I feel like printing out and posting it, even if it's from a bank.

Smile when you are ready.
I have this one framed, typed up in a large font. Since I've been in kind of a funk lately, one of my coworkers suggested today I get a mantra. Something to recite whenever I'm scared or nervous about life that'll calm me. I was wracking my brain all day for one and when I started writing this post, I remembered my framed copy of this phrase was once in a fortune cookie. I think I refound my mantra. I love happy coincidences!

So may good fortune find you tonight, and check out some of these great articles that "spoke" to me if you want some good reading.

Photo from Wikipedia

Some Thoughts On Wasting Money

So I just got back from a trip and things have been crazy busy. I saw my buddy J's art project on his blog and thought I'd steal the idea. He gets more exposure, I get a free blog post: a win-win I thought.

Then this morning some negative comments basically saying: how can you waste $48 cash on this painting? A perfectly valid question that did get me to thinking.

J had an artistic vision and to him it was worth $50. I get that. Moreover, I respect it.

We all have things other people think we "waste" our money on. When I have extra money, I buy clothes for example. I know friends who love to own every new movie that comes out or have a cell phone that costs more monthly then my phone bill and gym membership combined. Some of use like an expensive meal once in awhile or lunch with the gals every week. We would all spend $50 or more (per month anyway) on most of these things and no one would comment.

Cash on a painting? Maybe it's not your thing. And that's fine. I certainly don't expect people to like everything posted on this blog.

One thing I have learned in writing this blog is that there is not way to personal financial freedom. That's why there's so many personal finance blogs out there. And I think the personal finance gurus who tell you to live reasonably and splurge occasionally are the most right-on.

The excellent book "All Your Worth" has it down to a formula: needs 50%, wants 30%, and savings 20%. Working within those parameters, I've done fine and you can too. And whether you spend your 30% wants on coffee drinks or art projects is not for me to judge. 

But I am curious, especially with the personal finance minded people out there: what do you "waste" your money on? (I mean waste to other people, not to you.) And if you feel a little talky, why do you do it?

Too Cute Tuesday: The Money Painting

The following guest craft was done by J. at Budgets Are Sexy. You can subscribe to this fantabulous blog here (I do!) or you can obsessively check out his blog here.

So I may have been on the road but I was still doing some blog reading on the vacation. When I saw J's painting, I immediately thought it would be fun for a Too Cute Tuesday project. J emailed me back right away, even with his favorite cocktail recipe.

What I like the most about this project is the fact J attempts and does something fun that most adults don't think of doing. (In his words, "Finishing your first painting since second grade: Priceless") As adults we (myself included here) are doing things to fix something or improve functionality or even just to turn around and sell it. Why not make something cause it's fun? And why not this money painting? Have fun why don't you!

(I kept J's words from here on out because his writing style is part of what makes it fun.)

Materials needed:
- 1 canvas (i think mine was 30" by 24")
- 3 acrylic paint colors
- 3 paint brushes
- 3 bowls
- 48 $1 bills (depending on canvas size)
- 2 things of elmer's glue (you can also use Modge Podge)

Favorite cocktail?  i suuuuuure do :)  Baileys on ice...mmmm....i can go for one right now!

 

Steps: 

1) Glue all of the $1 bills on!  This was the most time consuming - i think it took me an average of 20 mins per row, and there was something like 11 or 12 rows on this bad boy ;)  i'd divide it up a bit so you don't shoot yourself.  I went with a "brick-like" pattern, trying to align the edges in a way that they all don't match up exactly (so like the opposite of a grid-like pattern...if that makes sense). i zig-zagged plain ol' white glue on the back of the bills, and then aligned them nicely, one at a time, on the canvas.  once placed, i went over it a few times with my fingers to make sure the glue would spread out and not leave any bumps and all....most of the time the glue covered the entire back, and front, of the bills when i finished ;) 

2) Splatter all the colors of paint on it! Go outside, get something to hold up the canvas, and dip a medium-sized brush into the acrylic paint (straight up with no water added), and then "fling" the paint on it a la Jackson Pollock!

3)Then, while the paint splatters are still wet, grab a larger brush and dip it into the main color you want (in this case, it's blue).  Start painting whatever object you'd like! I did the dollar sign cuz it's one of my favorite symbols out there :)  the beauty of all this is that while it'll start out mainly blue, as you paint the object it'll hit all the other colors and swirl them into the blue!  Thus, leaving you with both texture AND a wonderful new colorful!

4)Then add any borders you'd like, using the same fashion - pour the color in a bowl, dip the brush in, and start painting - again picking up colors from the "splatters" as you move along.
 
And that's basically it!  If you're  perfectionist like me, you may have to go back and touch it up a bit (like adding your signature and all), but it's all a matter of your liking.  If you go down this route, you'll have to pour the main color in a bowl, and then drip a cple other colors in to give it that "swirly/mixture" concoction since the painting will be dried by then.

So even if you're not nervy enough to pick up a big canvas, making a painting is a fun way to personalize your space and get in touch with your inner creative self. Happy Crafting and thanks J!

Getting A Cell Phone

Nicole Joins The 21st Century

Today, I did the unthinkable and bought a cell phone. Those of you who know me are probably shocked so I'll give you a moment to recover from your shock.

Ok, now that you've recovered...

I finally bit the bullet on the cell phone for a few reasons. First of all, I missed an important phone call while on vacation that required me to spend $17 overnighting a check. Also, since I've been traveling a lot, I am beginning to see the importance of having one while I'm in transit (I mean, I have to use 45 units off my calling card to make one call from a pay phone! Come on!). And finally, I sat next to someone on the plane who I had a very in depth conversation about the pros and cons of cell phones with. In having this conversation, I realize my beef with cell phones is the lack of manners associated with them, not them as useful devices. Colan (my seatmate) finally convinced me the benefits far outweighed the costs and since he isn't family or a friend, I was able to listen to him objectively.

Being the over researcher I am, I've been asking around with family and friends this past week about good plans and companies to go with. Verizon was recommended, Sprint was not. My Canada-adjacent friends also turned me to the fact that there is an additional plan that can work with Canadian towers without charging roaming fees. I also found out things like 300 text messages a month is more then enough for a 27 year old woman and that the superfast network with the Apple iPhone isn't even available in this area. I do like my internet research but I find talking to a lot of people most of the time even more helpful, don't you?

So I walked into the store armed with all this information today and picked out my phone. The store didn't have it in my preferred color so I'll be picking it up tomorrow.  

My one hesitation with the cell phone is the two year commitment with the plan. My friend Sarah says Congress is working on passing a law that would make it easier to get out of a cell contract early. Until then, I guess two years with a nationwide carrier is doable.

I am also getting a hands free device right away. My friend Robby knows someone who go lymphoma on one side of his neck possibly from cell phone use and quite honestly, with cancer speculation is enough for me to err on the side of caution.

I'm excited to be joining the rest of society in this regard. I'll hopefully be able to be more productive and a better friend with my new toy. (This progressiveness is made possible by my mom, who is paying for my phone and first year of service as a Christmas gift.)

In the meantime, I urge all cell phone users to use manners while operating. Check out this comprehensive list to remind you of some things you shouldn't do.

Article from the University of Wisconsin about cell phone use and cancer
State Laws in Regards To Cell Phones

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Secrets of a 60 Year Marriage

I came to Fort Kent this past weekend to celebrate my grandparent's 60th wedding anniversary. We went to a restaurant which was also the dance hall where they had their reception.

They got married in October because that's when they had their money from picking potatoes. They had both worked all summer to save up the money for their wedding. It was a whole day event involving an 8 am wedding ceremony, lunch, visiting families, then having a big dance.

After they were married, my grandfather invited her back to live at the family farm (which is what his other married siblings had done) but my grandmother said "No way". Instead, they got their own apartment. It cost $5 a month. They made due and by the time they got their car ($25 a month payment), their rent had gone up to $5 a week.

If we think about it today, it doesn't seem like a lot my grandfather said tonight but I am pretty sure back then it was substantial, especially for a young couple starting out.

I asked what the secret was to staying married that long. My grandfather leaned over.

"Well, I didn't tell her I loved her enough at the beginning but then I started telling her more and more."

"When was that?" I asked.

"About 20, 25 years ago."

"What else?"

"I always tried to give her more then she gave me, and she did the same."

My grandfather is a quiet man who doesn't say a lot so when he does talk, you tend to listen well.

Maybe it is that simple. It's nice to think that doing your best for the other person can help gather a family 60 years later for a nice meal.

Tonight, my grandmother insisted on paying. She laughed when she opened the check; it cost more then her entire wedding had all those years ago. I'm lucky to have such kind generous people in my life.

Ergonomics and Blogging

Well I did what I thought was a fabulous audio podcast from the road today but of course it's not uploading so I'm coming to you in my usual written format.

I flew back east yesterday (into the cold, yikes!) and spent the day driving to my hometown of Fort Kent for the weekend to celebrate my grandparent's 60th wedding anniversary tomorrow. Needless to say, a lot of traveling.

I got to thinking today about my wrists. Mainly driving long distances tweaks my wrists similar to blogging so I have to wear my guards when I drive as well (people who pass me must think I'm a total punk!).

I've learned a few other things on this trip about ergonomics from my friends who have had similar issues and I thought I'd share.

1) Try braces. You already know about mine. Here are some pictures of me with my skater-looking blog braces here and here. I got mine at Rite Aid for about $20 each and they have more then paid for themselves. ($40 for both wrists)

2) Get voice recognition software. Frugal Fergie had a review of Dragon NaturallySpeaking software recently. My friend Sarah's fiancee Jeremy is a blogger who is currently traveling across the country. This software is allowing him to blog on the road while he's driving. I'm definitely investing! ($200)

3) Get a seperate keyboard for your laptop. My friends both do this and along with a wireless mouse, this is an ergonomic and inexpensive way to turn your laptop into a desktop computer. Bonus is that you can make your laptop sit higher, making the screen more ergonomically correct as well. ($30)

So throwing a little money at this carpal tunnel problem may help me even more. If you have any tips that make your computer use more comfortable, do share!

Another great article: How to Avoid the Physical Hazards of Blogging from Problogger

Fourteen Things I Learned In Las Vegas

I am sitting in the hotel lobby, waiting to head to the airport. I don’t have quite enough time to go on a new adventure but since I’m feeling a little reflective, I might as well pen a few things I’ve learned in Las Vegas. (You know me, always looking to learn something!)

1. Casinos make it as easy as possible to get inside, and really hard to get out. If you go to Vegas, you’ll notice moving walkways always work on the way in but not necessarily on the way out. Also the casino entrances are clearly marked (usually even with people to welcome you) but finding an exit can be a whole other story.
2. The constant advertising and pushing of agendas that seems annoy everyone must clearly be working. The guide books complain about the guys on the corners handing out cards for hookers but there is clearly some payoff to them standing there day in and day out or else they wouldn’t do it.
3. There’s no such thing as a free drink. The guide books talk about how you can get free drinks if you gamble but if you’ve ever sat at a slot machine or even played at a table you know that the $10 you would have spent on a drink is gone in about five minutes. (Unless you bring my horse expert friend Bailey to pick mules in mule racing but that’s a whole other story.) There is always a catch, and that’s ok as long as you know that up front.
4. If you’re going to do something, you might as well go all the way. I bought tickets to Cirque de Soleil’s O show at the Bellagio. At $173 for premium seats, it was a splurge but worth it to see the most amazing show of my life. (Yes even personal finance bloggers need to splurge on occasion).
5. Multiple sinks in a room of multiple women just make sense. A suite is such a comfortable way to go when you are staying somewhere. Last night, I cooked myself dinner and did a load of laundry. Hotel rooms are so variable here that it may be worth a little investigation into a suite if you are staying with a group. The money you save on the occasional meal and other conveniences may make it worth a slight cost increase.
6. It’s good to be a woman in Vegas. Girls seem to get better treatment around here. I went to some pretty swanky clubs never paying cover while other people I met had paid $30 to get in. There are also free drinks and in general a lot more attention then you’d get anywhere else (at least in my case). Oddly flattering but a little much at times.
7. People like coming here because they can be a high roller, if only for a few days. A limo is almost as cheap as a cab, everyone is really nice to you, and pretty much everything you’d want to do is within a 20 mile radius (I’m including scenic desert and hiking as well as dining and dancing). There seem to be a gazillion flights in and out of here judging from the amount of planes I saw from the top floor pool of my hotel in just a couple hours. Easy to get in and out and you can get access to luxurious things like fancy cars and crab legs relatively cheaply means people can come here and feel like one of the beautiful people without much extra effort or spending.
8. You can be whoever you want in Vegas. There are enough people to be anonymous but the downtown is small enough to be walkable. I may be a writer to a few people out there now and it was pretty fun to be Nicole the Writer I must say!
9. Good company makes all the difference. Coming to a place like this with good friends who are open to a good time made this probably the best vacation I’ve ever had.
10. I am a lucky person. I don’t have to let people use my body to make money. I have a roof over my head. I have enough self control to walk away from the table when I’m ahead. There are a lot of great things about a place like Vegas but such a cross section of life can also really put your non-Vegas life into perspective.
11. I’m missing absolutely nothing on cable. I’ve caught up on Kimora Lee Simmon’s reality show and watched some commercials for upcoming Lifetime television movies. I’m all set for awhile!
12. It is totally worth the prevacation hassle to take a vacation. Yes there is planning, packing, air travel, and setting work up so things can continue while you’re gone but all that is worth it the second you step in that hotel room.
14. Skipping the thirteenth floor doesn’t mean it doesn’t exist. The elevator went from 12 to 14 (and I was on the fourteenth floor) but I know darn well I was on floor thirteen. I guess people really are superstitious in the city of luck!

Goodbye Vegas. I'm sure I'll be back soon!

Leaving Las Vegas

I'm leaving LV today. It's too bad; I could get used to this place. In short, a vacation well spent.

Here are a few photos. Back to the regularly scheduled program at Breaking Even soon!

 

 

Travel Tip: A Free Guide For Your Opinion

My friend Bailey brought some Las Vegas guide books when she flew in and we've used them a lot of the week. I had heard of and used Zagats a little before but nothing to this extent. (Examples: Best rated campy attractions helped me figure out which tourist stuff to skip and I'm using some recommendations for good solo dining restaurants)

Did you know you can get a free guide for doing a review? It can be as simple as giving an amount of stars to a cafe. Here's the page where you can do just that.

Getting something free and useful for giving my opinion? I'm down with that!

Vegas Update: Day 5?

I'm having such a great time on my vacation. Thanks to those of you who are continuing to read the blog while I'm in Las Vegas. I appreciate it!

This has been one of those times where I only realized how much I needed and wanted to do this when I actually came here. I've gotten to spend time with two great friends I don't often see. We've done everything from checking out the Hoover Dam to trying out luck at gambling to staying out until 7:30 this morning. We've eaten at swanky restaurants and hotel buffets and Thai food at a restaurant strip mall. While relaxing isn't quite the word I'd use to describe the last few days, I can say that it is energizing to just be doing something different and fun.

I'll be posting some photos tomorrow. For now, it's time to get ready to hit the town. (Getting ready is half the fun actually!) Have a great night and I hope you are getting to do something fun as well.

Too Cute Tuesday: Greatest Hits

So this Tuesday, I'm in Las Vegas. I may be walking the Strip right now, I may be lying on the deck of a roof top pool... who knows. It's hard to craft away from home, especially if you've limited yourself to carry on luggage.

I've taken the suggestion of Jodi and finally rounded up Too Cute Tuesday posts, which I started way back in June. Good times go by fast.

All The Too Cute Tuesday Posts Ever

Some greatest hits:

Look out for the Duct Tape Wallet, clearly the most popular Too Cute Tuesday ever.

My proudest crafting attempt can be seen in the making of cheese.

The best cocktail/craft combo was the pom martini/magazine organizer with some help from The Craft Junkie.

The most stylish and easy project is the fashion icon earrings.

And if you do have an idea for a craft, comment or email me and we can collaborate on a post. Because the only thing more fun then Too Cute Tuesday is someone else crafting with me on my craft holy day.

Happy Crafting!

How To Pack Light

When I studied abroad in college, I schlepped a huge backpack-o-stuff to Europe. I could hardly pull it through the airports myself it was so full. I was afraid if I didn’t bring all those things with me that I would have to do without something I needed or, worse, spend unnecessary money.

Did I use everything in my suitcase? Of course not. Some of the clothes I brought, though travel-appropriate, were neutral colors and kind of boring so I didn’t wear them. (Later I found out my host family thought I was depressed because I didn’t wear color for the first month I was there!)  On the other hand, one major item I didn’t think to pack was school supplies. When I got to France, I had to buy the usual student supplies of notebooks, pens, and markers. Oh no, not spending money! I lamented but it was unavoidable. When in Europe I guess.

My point is, even when I was staying somewhere six months, there was no reason for me to pack a big bag. After this experience, I was a converted light packer.

I headed to Las Vegas Friday with a carry on and a purse. I have quite a range of items (ranging from pool loungewear to something fancy to wear to a show).

Here are a few ways I pulled it off:

1) I brought lots of easy to wash items: polyester blends that could easily be refreshed in the hotel sink if need be.
2) Small containers of liquids and gels are needed for a carry on (a quart sized bag is not a gallon sized bag as I learned. Good thing I was able to cram everything in a quart!).  It would be really fun and easy, however, for me to purchase small containers at a drug store at my destination rather then bringing with. (I love seeing stores in other parts of the country, especially convenience and grocery stores. Talk about culture!)
3) Charge all devices before your trip. My iPod will probably last my entire trip on the one charge I gave it last night, as will my digital camera. Prioritizing on all those cords is key to keeping your bag light.
4) Multitasking items.Need I say more?
5) You can always ship home. When I went to San Fran and bought some new stuff, I shipped a box of dirty clothes home my last day there to make room in my suitcase. It was sure worth having that extra space in exchange for the $10.

You'll be happy you packed light. Trust me!

Top Ten Female Fashion Staples: Style In Summary

I hope you had fun with these posts. I did, though the photo commitment was a lttle difficult with a busy photographer and lack of tripod. In case you missed any, here is a list of all the posts in the Fashion Staples Series:

Top Ten Female Wardrobe Staples: The Cotton Sweater
Top Ten Female Wardrobe Staples: The Crisp White Shirt
Top Ten Femlae Wardrobe Staples: The Graphic T-Shirt
Top Ten Female Wardrobe Staples: The Pencil Skirt
Top Ten Female Wardrobe Staples: The Wrap Dress
Top Ten Female Wardrobe Staples: The Pin Striped Suit
Top Ten Female Wardrobe Staples: Good Shoes
Top Ten Female Wardrobe Staples: Flattering Jeans
Top Ten Female Wardrobe Staples: Three Season Coat
Top Ten Female Wardrobe Staples: Graphic Print Dress

And with that, here are five points I hope to have driven home:

Five Fashion Rules To Live By

1. Buy the best you can afford. I have been shocked at what I've spent on some items in my wardrobe but in compiling my posts, I realized some of my more expensive articles have lasted me over five years. If you can't afford labels retail (or on sale even), try vintage or swapping with family and friends.

2. Thicker fabrics with some stretch are not only more forgiving but will last longer. Go spandex!

3. Think of every piece of clothing working together. Would you buy a computer part without thinking if it was compatible with your computer? Of course not. When you buy something, think of how it will work with what you already have. That said, think of your suit as two seperate peices to mix and match and try to think of your clothes in innovative ways, like belting a sweater to wear like a dress.

4. Remember that you can do alterations on items that need them. If you have the perfect skirt and it's an inch too long, don't let that stop you. You can do it yourself, or pay a few dollars for someone else to do it. Check out this video if you want a sewing lesson (starring me!). PUT LINK HERE

5. Wear it fearlessly. If it's one thing I've learned, it's that you can wear anything if you think you can get away with it. (Think Madonna.) Sure some of your fashion risks will fail but mostly you won't. So work it and, as my fashionable friend Jessica would say, make people believe it.

Four Cheap Ways To Stretch Your Wardrobe

Of course, you don't have to buy entirely new articles of clothing to stretch your wardrobe. I used a few tricks this week:

1. Scarves- a $6 pashmina is warm and effortless. I did a post about their wonderfulness here. LINK HERE

2. Tights or leggings- keep things warm but get some with patterns and it could make some of your clothes a little funkier (I got my patterned tights in Quebec City but Hue makes some great pairs. And remember a $25 pair of tights will not break the first time you put them on like those ones you buy in the little bubbles at the drug store.)

3. Jewelry with a personality- you can hit up flea markets and garage sales but a majority of my jewelry came for free from relatives. Ask your mom (or even a cool aunt) if they've got anything they don't wear. They'll probably be happy someone can use it!

4. Makeup- Add drama with bright lipstick. Look healthy and outdoorsy with a little blush. Think of makeup as creating your own personal lighting situation.

4.5 Hats- A fedora, a paper boy hat, a floppy straw topper can add an extra omph to your outfit. It' a throw back to another time (plus I felt "makeup" may have cheated some male readers looking for tips so I wanted to put a fourth tip for them too). 
 

Three Great Blogs With Fashion Tips

1.DC Goodwill Blog- consistently good and used clothing oriented
2. Frugal Fergie- she's turned me on to cheap online glasses but she's got other great stuff on her blog, some of which involves style
3.Wisebread- had a series of fashion posts a few weeks ago that originally inspired this series. Three Money Sucking Wardrobe Items and How to Dress for Success and Still Spend Less.

Vegas Update: Day 1

It was an interesting day involving shopping, walking around, and people watching. The favorite was Paris. (Sarah and I both studied abroad in France.)

Tonight, we are going to spend the whole evening at the Bellagio. Here are some photos from the day:

 

 

 

I hope you're having a great day wherever you are!

Top Ten Female Wardrobe Staples: Graphic Print Dress

This series on fashion is inspired by a few great fashion related posts and bloggers I've been reading lately as well as a really positive response I got from a comment I left on another blog. A young woman was asking what she should get for a work wardrobe without spending a fortune. I gave this some thought and then commented on the ten pieces I'd recommend she get. I got an email back, complimenting my complete list and saying it would serve as a shopping list.

Over the next two weeks I'll be doing a post on each article of clothing as well as photographing some of my outfits. Enjoy!

Today is the tenth and final article of clothing I'd recommend in building a wardrobe. It's hard to pick an item to end this series with. A pair of dress pants is certainly something useful. A cashmere sweater is luxury I'd wish on everyone. But I'm going to end this with something fun with layering possibilities: a graphic print dress.

I brought a graphic print dress to Vegas with me even! (PHOTOS COMING SOON)

Alternatively, if you're not a dress kind of person, try a graphic print tunic. The longer shirt length is flattering and elegant and you'll still be able to mix it with all your solid basics. Here's how I do it.

Business

A printed dress with heels is business-y but you can take it to that next level with jewelry and maybe a pair of glasses to look a little nerdy.

Casual

The same dress with flip flops and costume jewelry makes a different statement.  Add brown leggings and it's super casual.

Funky

Layer the dress over a pair of pants for a funkier look. A sweater over can warm up the look.

Graphic print dress, Mossimo, $30

Tips for picking a graphic print dress: An empire waist is a flattering fit for most anyone. A thick band around the waist gives the dress some structure (and shows your body isn't shaped like a bag of potatoes!) The print should be versatile for you: if most of your clothes are black, pick a pattern with some black in it. Large or small print is up to what you like but a print to mix in with the other solid staples will keep things interesting. Since these kind of dresses are really in style, you should be able to find a variety of options that could work for you.

Top Ten Female Wardrobe Staples: The Cotton Sweater
Top Ten Female Wardrobe Staples: The Crisp White Shirt
Top Ten Femlae Wardrobe Staples: The Graphic T-Shirt
Top Ten Female Wardrobe Staples: The Pencil Skirt
Top Ten Female Wardrobe Staples: The Wrap Dress
Top Ten Female Wardrobe Staples: The Pin Striped Suit
Top Ten Female Wardrobe Staples: Good Shoes
Top Ten Female Wardrobe Staples: Flattering Jeans
Top Ten Female Wardrobe Staples: Three Season Coat

Top Ten Female Wardrobe Staples: Three Season Coat

This series on fashion is inspired by a few great fashion related posts and bloggers I've been reading lately as well as a really positive response I got from a comment I left on another blog. A young woman was asking what she should get for a work wardrobe without spending a fortune. I gave this some thought and then commented on the ten pieces I'd recommend she get. I got an email back, complimenting my complete list and saying it would serve as a shopping list.

Over the next two weeks I'll be doing a post on each article of clothing as well as photographing some of my outfits. Enjoy!

It sure is cold in Maine and even if it doesn't dip below freezing, where you live it no doubt gets chilly enough to warrant a jacket.

I don't have a lot of different looks to show but a coat is a staple I couldn't leave out of my recommended list!

Green wool blend coat from discount store, $30

Tips for picking a coat: Invest in a material that'll stand the test of time. Cashmere or wool can work in cold climates but a lighter material may work better for your locale. Buy the best you can afford. A 3/4 length coat is long enough to wear with a dress and looks pretty sharp to me. Alternatively, a coat that hits at the hip can be worn as a blazer at times. Your call on what works better for your wardrobe. Make sure the coat fits in the shoulders; you can have most everything else altered. Try second hand stores for nice gently used coats. (I once found a pink cashmere coat for $12 at a thrift store. It would have stared in this post but it's getting repaired.)

(I cut my own head off of this picture because you should have seen the look on my face!)

Top Ten Female Wardrobe Staples: The Cotton Sweater
Top Ten Female Wardrobe Staples: The Crisp White Shirt
Top Ten Femlae Wardrobe Staples: The Graphic T-Shirt
Top Ten Female Wardrobe Staples: The Pencil Skirt
Top Ten Female Wardrobe Staples: The Wrap Dress
Top Ten Female Wardrobe Staples: The Pin Striped Suit
Top Ten Female Wardrobe Staples: Good Shoes
Top Ten Female Wardrobe Staples: Flattering Jeans

Viva Las Vegas!

Holy cow, has it been a long strange trip. I'm working on finishing today's fashion-related post so stay tuned for that. In the meantime, the view from my hotel (much different from the New England suburbs!).

Top Ten Female Wardrobe Staples: Flattering Jeans

This series on fashion is inspired by a few great fashion related posts and bloggers I've been reading lately as well as a really positive response I got from a comment I left on another blog. A young woman was asking what she should get for a work wardrobe without spending a fortune. I gave this some thought and then commented on the ten pieces I'd recommend she get. I got an email back, complimenting my complete list and saying it would serve as a shopping list.

Over the next two weeks I'll be doing a post on each article of clothing as well as photographing some of my outfits. Enjoy!

When I was a kiddo, I hated jeans. They felt restrictive and stiff. I was always partial to khakis... until I discovered jeans with 2-3% spandex. Then I was a convert.

A pair of dark wash blue jeans are a little more versatile then most other washes (though if your favorite pair is light you can always dye them). Here are few ways I wear my favorite pair of dark wash, wide leg gap jeans:

Business

Wear your jeans with your trusty graphic print t-shirt, pin striped blazer and some pumps and you are casual Friday ready. The dark wash and trouserlike cut keep the outfit business but the spandex material allows your body to relax just a little.

Casual

Jeans and a t-shirt can work for most casual occasions but jeans and a sweater is cozy. I've worn an ensemble like this on casual first dates or dinner at a friends house. And some casual sneakers and jewelry complete the ensemble.

Funky

A V-neck tunic, dangly earrings, and animal print flats are a little funky but flattering. The V neck and long earrings draw the eye up and down on the body for a more flattering fit. For an even funkier outfit, you can wear a dress with your jeans (but do commit to an either wide leg jean or a very skinny jean for a I-wore-this-together-on-purpose look).

Straight leg, dark wash Gap jeans, $80

Tips for jeans: Straight leg or boot cut seem to be your best bet. A dark wash is less casual then a lighter wash. Look for larger back pockets that are slightly higher on the pant for a butt-lifting effect. Remember that you can always hem jeans if they are too long but a good fit in the waist-hip area is priceless. Did I mention the wonderfulness of a spandex blend?

Check out the other posts in this series:
Top Ten Female Wardrobe Staples: The Cotton Sweater
Top Ten Female Wardrobe Staples: The Crisp White Shirt
Top Ten Femlae Wardrobe Staples: The Graphic T-Shirt
Top Ten Female Wardrobe Staples: The Pencil Skirt
Top Ten Female Wardrobe Staples: The Wrap Dress
Top Ten Female Wardrobe Staples: The Pin Striped Suit
Top Ten Female Wardrobe Staples: Good Shoes

Top Ten Female Wardrobe Staples: Good Shoes

This series on fashion is inspired by a few great fashion related posts and bloggers I've been reading lately as well as a really positive response I got from a comment I left on another blog. A young woman was asking what she should get for a work wardrobe without spending a fortune. I gave this some thought and then commented on the ten pieces I'd recommend she get. I got an email back, complimenting my complete list and saying it would serve as a shopping list.

Over the next two weeks I'll be doing a post on each article of clothing as well as photographing some of my outfits. Enjoy!

I hope you enjoyed my cheesy diversion for yesterday's Too Cute Tuesday but now it's back to finishing my top ten fashion list started seven days ago.

A good pair of shoes is definitely something I wanted to mention. I've had a pair of brown pumps for a few years now. They are still in great shape but the company label has since rubbed off. I can tell you they are Canadian and my mom bought them for me for about $100 almost five years ago. I've worn them at least weekly for the past two years.

When I say good shoes, I'm not saying go out and spend $500 on something trendy. I think around $100-$200 denotes a quality pair (with very rare exceptions of course). A good pair of pumps takes me far but your style might go the way of Dansko clogs or Doc Martins.

I've included photos of me and my trusty shoes from a few previous posts.

Anonymous but awesome Canadian brown leather pumps, $100 (I have a good black pair of pumps too, Kenneth Cole $80)

Tips for choosing your shoes: Buy a good pair that you can afford, ideally a black pair and a brown pair to match all your clothes. If you don't like my suggestions for styles/companies above, talk to your more well dressed coworkers. What shoes do they think are stylish and comfortable? They at least have a couple things in common with you 1) your geographic location and 2) what you all do eight hours or so a day. If you can't afford wonderful get ok and get a good pair of supportive insoles. Your feet are important to take care of and if your shoes are comfortable, you are going to be a happier and healthier person (you'll be walking more!).

Check out the other posts in this series:
Top Ten Female Wardrobe Staples: The Cotton Sweater
Top Ten Female Wardrobe Staples: The Crisp White Shirt
Top Ten Femlae Wardrobe Staples: The Graphic T-Shirt
Top Ten Female Wardrobe Staples: The Pencil Skirt
Top Ten Female Wardrobe Staples: The Wrap Dress
Top Ten Female Wardrobe Staples: The Pin Striped Suit

Too Cute Tuesday: Easy Homemade Mozzarella Cheese

I'm taking a break from my series on fashion basics because, well, it is Too Cute Tuesday and it does involve a craft and cocktail so why not?

Sure I'm preparing to fly across the country on Friday and sure, I had to work until 8 pm tonight but the article in Mother Earth News promised me 30 minute mozzarella. Sweet!

Materials:
1 gallon of milk
1 1/2 tsp citric acid dissolved in 1/4 cup cool water
1/4 tsp liquid rennet diluted in 1/4 cup cold water
1 to 2 tsp cheese salt (which is to say coarse grain, not iodized salt)
Rubber gloves (fresh ones! you are handling food)
thermometer that goes as low as 55 and as high as 175
Stainless steel pot
Slotted spoon

Here is the recipie at Mother Earth News for the Mozzarella. Print off the instructions there (and poke around their site for other DIY stuff if you are so inclined).

Cocktail: Kaluha and milk (embrace the ridiculous amount of milk you have!)

1. Citric acid and rennet (I got a vegeterian substitute) can be found at your local natural health food store. Rennet is in the cold section and citric acid is with the beer brewing supplies. (Clearly you can get milk and rubber gloves at your grocery store.)

2. Gather your supplies. Tell yourself you will be successful, despite the fact that you are working within narrow temperature ranges and are exhausted from your day. 

3. Take a sip of your drink. Remember to drink slowly because you need all your focus on the task at hand for the next thirty minutes.

4. Follow instructions, drink slow. Enjoy this quality time with milk products.

5. Your cheese is "best fresh" but "can be stored in the refrigerator for a week or so".

So was I successful? Sure was! The first go around, this ended up being 1 hour mozzarella but it was worth it! Yum!

My Blogiversary: One Year of Breaking Even

On this day last year, I decided I was going to blog. I had brainstormed a list of potential blog names over the course of a few days and as I thought more about the potential names, I kept really liking "Breaking Even".

First off, Breaking Even is the initial modest goal I had for the blog and for myself. First, I wanted to break even with this blog: have enough advertising and other revenue to pay for my web hosting, software, and maintaining/enhancing my computer. After a year, I'm very close to doing that thanks to Blogher and have surpassed that if you count the blog consulting I do (no regular writing gigs yet). For my second break even goal, I also wanted to break even with my own budget (after spending a few months in the red getting used to my smaller salary). I am now breaking even in my personal budget and putting aside more money then I ever have.

Breaking Even also means I don't want to get rich (though if that happens, I wouldn't mind!) I just want enough in my life, enough money to pay for a modest lifestyle, save a little for my old age, andhave a yearly trip to somewhere I've never been. I don't want to worry about money but I don't want to obsess about acquiring it either. Breaking Even is a balanced life.

And finally Breaking Even is above all being positive. I didn't call this blog "I'm a Loser with Debt" or "Struggling Penny Pincher". Breaking Even is moving forward, it's "making it". It's for everyone who thinks or wants to think about how to positively look at saving money and spending less. It's a positive look at life and what you can do with it.

Ok enough with the misty eyed talk on my blogiversary! To celebrate, I'm making my own cheese for my Too Cute Tuesday post this afternoon. (I know what you're thinking, I sure do know how to party!) I wish I could buy you all a cupcake to celebrate but funny pictures of me making cheese and a round-up of my most favorite posts at the end of the week will have to do!

Top Ten Female Wardrobe Staples: The Pin Striped Suit

This series on fashion is inspired by a few great fashion related posts and bloggers I've been reading lately as well as a really positive response I got from a comment I left on another blog. A young woman was asking what she should get for a work wardrobe without spending a fortune. I gave this some thought and then commented on the ten pieces I'd recommend she get. I got an email back, complimenting my complete list and saying it would serve as a shopping list.

Over the next two weeks I'll be doing a post on each article of clothing as well as photographing some of my outfits. Enjoy!

This suit was one of two that was purchased for post college job interviews. My grey pin striped suit actually turned out to be more versatile then my black one, and less expensive too.

I attribute the staying power of the suit to the material: a blend of spandex that has expanded and contracted with me through the years. (If you are the kind of person who stays the same size forever, congradulations and I'm jealous!)

The pin-stripe pattern also does a part in making the suit more fun then my more stuffy black one. It also has great details like a wide 70s style collar and an assymetrical skirt. I can wear the pieces seperately or together: so fun! And remember, if skirts aren't your thing, a suit with pants is equally adaptable.

Business

Sure, you can wear a suit and button down shirt but that's so...Capitol Hill! A bright shell is a more creative approach. Keeping everything else polished (hair back, simple jewelry, etc.) can keep the look serious. The whole thing makes me want to actually wear my reading glasses.

Casual Look 1 (with jacket only)

So many womens magazines tell you to pair jeans with a blazer and here I am following suit. (Ha! Get it? Suit?!?) A jacket makes you seem to have broader shoulders and a narrower waist. It also skims over potential problem areas without being tight. What's not to love?

Casual Look 2 (with skirt only)

Looking warm and nice is easy. Just add boots, a comfy sweater, and leaves and you are in an Eddie Bauer catalog! (I'd plug LL Bean here but they don't have suits. Sorry guys!)

Pin-Striped Suit (Skirt), Studio Mode (Canadian company), $150.

Tips for picking a suit: Do I have to say a material with spandex in it again? I feel like a broken record here (see the other posts in this series); your body will thank you for the breathing room! A suit with a small pattern means you can wear it with solids without looking boring. (I'm guessing you are like most people and have more solid shirts then printed shirts anyway.) Look for structure sans shoulder pads and a blazer that hits at the hip. Try on the suit bottom and try sitting and bending over...you shouldn't be showing your goods to the world. Look for interesting and flattering details that make your suit unique.

On a personal note, I've always had really good luck in Canada with blazers and suits in particular. I find the sizing there much more flattering for my body. And with NAFTA, you can cross up to $500 per person per day that you're there (at least that's what I remember). An excuse to go to Quebec City, I say!

Check out the other posts in this series:
Top Ten Female Wardrobe Staples: The Cotton Sweater
Top Ten Female Wardrobe Staples: The Crisp White Shirt
Top Ten Femlae Wardrobe Staples: The Graphic T-Shirt
Top Ten Female Wardrobe Staples: The Pencil Skirt
Top Ten Female Wardrobe Staples: The Wrap Dress

Top Ten Female Wardrobe Staples: The Wrap Dress

This series on fashion is inspired by a few great fashion related posts and bloggers I've been reading lately as well as a really positive response I got from a comment I left on another blog. A young woman was asking what she should get for a work wardrobe without spending a fortune. I gave this some thought and then commented on the ten pieces I'd recommend she get. I got an email back, complimenting my complete list and saying it would serve as a shopping list.

Over the next two weeks I'll be doing a post on each article of clothing as well as photographing some of my outfits. Enjoy!

  I bought this wrap dress in a thrift store two years ago. Jones of New York and in great condition, it was clearly a find for $8.

Cocktail

Paired with a pair of vintage gold shoes, a bag, and gold bracelet (the two accessories having belonged to my grandmother and great grandmother), this dress can be pretty slinky. Hair up adds to the drama of the outfit.

Business Casual

For a more work appropriate look, a camisole makes this dress more conservative and less, um, body-centric. Dark tights or leggings and heels also keep it low key and in this case, the bold necklace is the statement piece.

Funky

Ok, so not everyone wants to try to pull off plaid tights but I'll try anything once! My pin-striped blazer makes another appearance as the casual topper and big girl shoes are back. Even Sadie is impressed!

Tips for picking a wrap dress: A wrap dress is a pretty flattering one but any poly blend dress you feel good in will work. A blend material will stay wrinkle free longer and hold its shape. A solid dress means you get to play with pattern in accessories. At or below the knee is best for work situations, you can always make up for a plunging neckline with a camisole (I got this one for $3 at Goodwill). Sleeves (even short ones) are a good idea for most climates and occasions. Look for a good brand because it'll be generously cut, have thicker material, and have interesting details like this unique neckline. I would have paid $100 for this dress and been equally as excited about it.

Poly-blend wrap dress, Jones New York, $8 (thrift)

Check out the other posts in this series:
Top Ten Female Wardrobe Staples: The Cotton Sweater
Top Ten Female Wardrobe Staples: The Crisp White Shirt
Top Ten Femlae Wardrobe Staples: The Graphic T-Shirt
Top Ten Female Wardrobe Stapes: The Pencil Skirt

Top Ten Female Wardrobe Staples: The Pencil Skirt

This series on fashion is inspired by a few great fashion related posts and bloggers I've been reading lately as well as a really positive response I got from a comment I left on another blog. A young woman was asking what she should get for a work wardrobe without spending a fortune. I gave this some thought and then commented on the ten pieces I'd recommend she get. I got an email back, complimenting my complete list and saying it would serve as a shopping list.

Over the next two weeks I'll be doing a post on each article of clothing as well as photographing some of my outfits. Enjoy!

Five years ago, I couldn't believe I had let myself by a brown/black wool blend pencil skirt from J. Crew for $80. I was a student with a part-time job, I thought as I paid, why am I doing this? That impulsive spending is so unlike me. But intuition must have been at work that day.

That $80 skirt has taken me to cocktail parties, all day workdays in my cube, school functions, and religious celebrations. The wool blend makes if great for all seasons and helps keep the shape of the garmet. A brown skirt with black woven in means I can wear it with most any color and the length is appropriate for more conservative settings. And the "femme fatale" silouette of a pencil skirt is tough to beat!

Casual

A pencil skirt with my trusty graphic t-shirt, boots, jean jacket, and leggings (it's cold in Maine sometimes!) are super casual but put together. For extra warmth, my cotton black sweater could make a cameo appearance as a second layer. (See me working the black of the skirt).

Business Casual

I wore this skirt with these knee socks (this exact outfit probably) to work once and my 70 year old always-wears-a-suit boss said I looked "sharp". Now if that isn't a compliment, I don't know what is! I threw on a hat because I'm always looking for more occasions to wear hats. (See me working the brown of the skirt)

Funky

Fishnet stockings in dark pink and a belted sweater (something to update those duster sweaters from a few years ago) are yet another way to work the brown. I have a sparkly tank top underneath and if I wanted to dress this up, I could wear the sparkly top sans sweater. And if you're going to wear a pencil skirt, you might as well wear some heels (comfortable ones, of course!).

Wool Blend Pencil Skirt, J. Crew, $80

Tips on picking a pencil skirt: First off, if you don't like skirts, you can do this same thing with wool pants (you can even do wool cropped pants if you want to do fun things with legwear). If you are going for a skirt, get one that hits a little above or a little below the knee. One that hits at the knee looks terrible on; try it if you don't believe me. Remember you can always hem if you need to go err on the side of longer. The wool blend is important, even if you have to spend more. I'm not trying to get you in all dry cleaning clothes; I just want this to last. (I totally wash this skirt in my normal laundry by the way). A wide waist (see my two inch tab closure?) slims that part of you so if that little detail can happen go for it.

Check out the other posts in this series:
Top Ten Female Wardrobe Staples: The Cotton Sweater
Top Ten Female Wardrobe Staples: The Crisp White Shirt
Top Ten Femlae Wardrobe Staples: The Graphic T-Shirt

Top Ten Female Wardrobe Staples: The Graphic T-Shirt

This series on fashion is inspired by a few great fashion related posts and bloggers I've been reading lately as well as a really positive response I got from a comment I left on another blog. A young woman was asking what she should get for a work wardrobe without spending a fortune. I gave this some thought and then commented on the ten pieces I'd recommend she get. I got an email back, complimenting my complete list and saying it would serve as a shopping list.

Over the next two weeks I'll be doing a post on each article of clothing as well as photographing some of my outfits. Enjoy!

You may remember a previous blog about the wonderfulness of Threadless T-shirts. Cheap and unique (and they are nice and long as in you don't have to worry that you are showing your belly to the world), I myself have bought a Threadless t-shirt in a bright color with a graphic print. One bold t-shirt with graphic can take you far. Come on the journey with me...

Casual

Jeans and a t-shirt: it's a beautiful thing. Embrace your inner 90s with a long sleeve underneath. I did a zippered version with a collar I can pop up and some print flats to make the ensemble a little less blah.

Business Casual

My favorite Casual Friday outfit is taking a suit and putting a graphic tee instead of a dress shirt. You can even swap out the dress pants for jeans and still look very put together. My pin-striped blazer will make another appearance later in this series but as you can see, the cut and pattern make it modern but timeless. I even paired the whole thing with dark pink heels which are a little different then the red shirt, another small nod to the fact I don't take myself too seriously.

Funky

I dragged out the acid wash in part to make my photographer laugh (as you can see from the photo, I was getting a little punchy towards the end of the shoot). Really though, pairing your t-shirt with a favorite skirt can be unexpected (I've worn it with my pencil skirt more then a few times!). Because it's freezing cold in Maine, I threw on my leggings and some flats, though boots would also work. The fedora works with the other trendy items (trendy leggings, flats, and t-shirt) and takes some attention away from the acid wash skirt.

Graphic Print T-shirt, Threadless, $15

Tips on a Graphic Print T-shirt: Look for a shirt with a thicker cotton or cotton poly blend. Those flimsy cotton t-shirts you get at someplace like American Eagle or Abercrombie are too see-through and can only work if you have a rockin' body. Look for a longer shirt so your stomach does not make an appearance at work when you do things like sit down or reach for something on a shelf. Find a flattering color on you: Pale skin looks good with pastels, medium skin looks great with "crayon colors", olive looks great with jewel tones. (I read this in a company break room magazine that is no longer there so you'll have to take my word for it!) Get a shirt with a few colors in it to increase our matching possibilities. Oh, and have fun picking it out, then you're certain to have fun wearing it!

Check out the other posts in this series:
Top Ten Female Wardrobe Staples: The Cotton Sweater
Top Ten Female Wardrobe Staples: The Crisp White Shirt

Top Ten Female Wardrobe Staples: Crisp White Shirt

This series on fashion is inspired by a few great fashion related posts and bloggers I've been reading lately as well as a really positive response I got from a comment I left on another blog. A young woman was asking what she should get for a work wardrobe without spending a fortune. I gave this some thought and then commented on the ten pieces I'd recommend she get. I got an email back, complimenting my complete list and saying it would serve as a shopping list.

Over the next two weeks I'll be doing a post on each article of clothing as well as photographing some of my outfits. Enjoy!

A crisp white shirt sure is fun. It looks polished, relatively good on everyone, and comes in many different styles.

My long white shirt has really gone the distance for me. Here's how I work it:

Casual

Wearing a long shirt with leggings is casual and very figure flattering. (Everyone has good calves!) A chunky necklace and cool flats keep the look from going too much in the restaurant hostess direction.

Business Casual

The shirt is long enough for coverage but also short enough to tuck in. With a pencil skirt and wide belt, the look is quite structured. Some heels and big girl jewelry (in this case, my great grandmother's costume jewelry) step it up even more.

Funky

Wide leg pants with a long shirt look fluid and wearing the shirt open keeps it casual (I'm wearing a black tank but you could easily wear another color for a bolder look). A long necklace and flats complete the ensemble.

White Tunic-length Button Down Shirt: Old Navy, $10

Tips on your white shirt: Look for a thicker material. Try on the shirt in dressing room with your usual undergarments on. If you can see it, so can everyone else. A longer length (hitting at your hip bone or below) is more versatile. Try to get a shirt with a couple interesting details. This one has sleeves you can roll and pin up and some small pockets. A shirt with too many details won't go with a variety of clothes but one with none will not be very fun to wear. Try to strike a balance!

Top Ten Female Wardrobe Staples: Cotton Sweater

This series on fashion is inspired by a few great fashion related posts and bloggers I've been reading lately as well as a really positive response I got from a comment I left on another blog. A young woman was asking what she should get for a work wardrobe without spending a fortune. I gave this some thought and then commented on the ten pieces I'd recommend she get. I got an email back, complimenting my complete list and saying it would serve as a shopping list. (I'll link this as soon as I can find it!)

Over the next two weeks I'll be doing a post on each article of clothing as well as photographing some of my outfits. Enjoy!

If you know me only in Computerland, you probably don't know that I love clothes. I consider myself a fairly well dressed person though occasionally I take some fashion chances that don't quite work. (Much like the Carrie Bradshaw character in Sex and the City.) There are, however, some tried and true wardrobe staples every woman (and men too!) should consider.

A cotton sweater is something for everyone's closet. First of all, they are usually pretty inexpensive, which is helpful. Also, a thicker knit sweater is more, um, forgiving on a not-so-perfect body. They can be worn all seasons of the year and are great for layering. Here is my black cotton sweater done three ways (I have gotten lots of wear also with my yellow cotton sweater!):

Casual

A black sweater over my favorite t-shirt is made much less fussy with a pair of worn jeans, flats, and some funky (but not so sparkly) earrings. Great for a Saturday morning breakfast at a diner without looking like I just rolled out of bed.

Business Casual

I like to break rules by pairing black with brown. My brown cropped pants (which were once pants for a shorter friend of mine) look like they match the sweater when I pair the outfit with brown heels and brown earrings. Since the neckline of this sweater is very detailed, a necklace would make it too busy.

Funky

I'm so happy leggings are in style; they've doubled my wardrobe! When I pair them with a graphic print dress, printed flats, and my trusty black sweater, I am an unstoppable ninja. Well, maybe not, but I look kind of artsy and creative, right? But remember when your outfit has this much going on, say no to flashy jewelry!

Cotton black sweater: New York and Company, $30 (this was from a couple years ago)

Tips on your cotton sweater: Look for a thicker material/weave. A thin fabric will be clingy, which is not ideal for most people. A longer length (hitting at your hip bone) is more versatile then a cropped version. Try not to go too low with a V-neck or you won't be able to wear it to work. When you do get your sweater, hand wash and dry on a rack to help it keep its color and shape. Also if you are in a flash photography situation, don't wear light colors underneath a dark sweater because everyone will see your underwear. Especially don't do this during a blog photo shoot; your dog and/or boyfriend will laugh at you.

Too Cute Tuesday: Matching Desk Sets

Too Cute Tuesday is a weekly series where we drink a lovely cocktail and make a cute craft, usually in an effort to save money and be stylish. I didn't realize what a popular feature this would end up being so I initally didn't link all the TCT posts together. I'm working on that now. In the meantime, you can get most of the list on the "Home Improvement" section. If you craft and cocktail, do email me your ideas and maybe we can work together on a post!

Desk sets are so pretty and practical but at $30+ apiece, why invest? No doubt you've already repurposed a mug for your pencils or bought some discount supplies at different times when you've needed them (my binders from student teaching, my magazine organizer post Domino subscription, etc.). Your desk accessories are functional but not matching, which is fine. But a couple hours and a can of spray paint later, you can have the look of matching office supplies for the cost of $5. Bonus is you get to feel cool and alternative like a graffiti artist.

Spray paint is such a fast and instant change, it's perfect on those nights where you're kind of tired but still want to do something productive. The cocktail tonight equally reflects my laziness.

Materials:
Spray paint (two colors if you want a two toned look (see left) though one can of white, black, or metallic paint will work)- $5 a can
Newspapers (to protect your floor- alternatively you could do it outside on your lawn)
Painters tape (if you want to protect some areas from getting spray painted in achieving your two-toned look)
Office supplies that need a makeover (take off any stickers and make sure the surfaces are otherwise clean and ready for spray paint)

Cocktail: Cheap white wine, with a screw top (even less work!)

1. Stop by your favorite hardware store, say "Hi" to your buddies there, and buy some spray paint. Try one can, it should be enough to do what you want to do intially. If you like the color, you can always get more.

2. Go home and change into something comfortable that you can get a little paint-y. White wine you can open with a twist is perfect to accompany your painting.

3. Spread newspaper (if applicable) and spread your office supplies on it. Spread them far apart for each other; you want to keep your spray smooth for each item.

4. Shake the spray can and spray each object gently. Keep the spray can moving to keep the finish smooth. Don't worry about getting the paint job finished the first coat. The key with spray paint is multiple thin layers.

5. Let your items dry while sipping wine.

6. Every twenty minutes, feel free to add a coat of paint. Sip. Paint. Sip. Rotate your objects and spray some more until you have a nice even finish.

*7. If you are two-toning your deskware, put painter's tape where you'd like Paint Number 1 to stay. Continue with Paint 2 as you did Paint 1. Is the two toned effect worth it? If you attempt, let me know!

You and spray paint. Now isn't that crafty!

Before photo: Nicole's sad jumble of functional but blah office materials
After photo: Nicole's stuff moves into the future as a cohesive unit, ready to accomplish more and look good doing it!

Leaves of Grass, Ten Years Later

A dear friend's father passed away about a week ago. The funeral was today and like quite a few days in this past year, I began driving north from my current central Maine home. I had coffee in hand early this morning, driving on a road I've driven a million times during the day and one awful time in the middle of the night.

Since it was a large funeral and involved someone very implicated in the education system, the wake was held in my old high school cafeteria. Robby, Laura, and I wandered the halls like we did years ago. Interestingly not much has changed, except some cosmetic stuff. Kind of like us really.

We were all in the same junior year English class (at least, I think we were). One of our assigned books and the bane of my existence was Walt Whitman's "Leaves of Grass". We had to write a letter to Whitman as an end-of-unit project and I wrote a thoughtful letter about how boring I thought it was and why.

I got this poem sent to me last week in an email from a friend. I scrolled to read it and liked it, and then I saw it was from "Leaves of Grass"! I guess some things do change, or at least are appreciated later in life anyway.

So I take the day and night off today to spend time with family and friends, and to be content. And I hope you can too.

I exist as I am, that is enough.
If no other in the world be
aware I sit content,
and if each and all be aware I sit content.
One world is aware and by
far the largest to me, and that is myself.
And whether I come to my own today or in
ten thousand or ten million years,
I can cheerfully take it now,
or with equal cheerfulness,
I can wait. 
                                                          
               - Walt Whitman, Leaves of Grass

Your Las Vegas Tips And Ideas Please!

This summer, I made plans to go to Vegas in October. My trip happens in about two weeks so I am in full planning mode.

My friend Sarah is meeting me for part of the trip and after that, I'm on my own. I've been emailing companies for informational interviews, contacting other bloggers to arrange meetups, and am even trying to get in a visit to UNLV (they have masters programs in media and business administration). Still my plans have yet to solidify and I will have tons of time to explore the area.

So what are you favorite places in Vegas? Any local foods/restaurants I have to try? What is totally overrated and lame? I am open to all experiences and while I've been reading a lot of travel websites, I take much more stock in your comments here. Thanks for your help!

Going Halfsies On Season Tickets

Why It Pays To Split

Sometimes I feel that where I live is 20 minutes away from everything. I would like to live in a city or other compact area with everything close. Having to get in car and drive can be kind of lame.

The other part (the good part) about being a short drive from a lot of things is that there are lots of possibilities for entertainment. Seeing the University Of Maine Black Bears Hockey team is one such possibility for us. I think Mainers get particularly excited about having something to do on a winter night besides trying to stay warm or snowblow their driveways (though that is exciting in its own way!). It doesn't hurt that UMaine is nationally ranked and really good either.

Sean has been splitting season tickets for a couple seasons now. This year, his seats are particularly good (though it's not evident from the slightly fuzzy photos I took). A coworker and Sean split a pair of season tickets. Each get two seats for ten games and each paid $350.

I initially thought this was kind of insane. But then I looked up ticket prices tonight for fun and they can run $30-$100 apiece depending on the game. Holy crap! With a little math I figure that our ticket price is $17.50, no matter who's playing.

A few other compelling reasons to split season tickets with a friend:
1) Price is right. Sean and I would have probably paid close to $17.50 each to see a movie or a play tonight.
2) Who wants to go to 20 games? I sure don't. A few in the season is fine with me. Sharing means not having to feel like you have to be Superfan.
3) Great activity to do with visitors or friends. When Sean's buddies come to town, a game is something fun and novel for them to do together. (And an excuse for me to do my own thing!)
4) They make great gifts!
5) It's a fun and novel thing to do. We could do most anything else most months of the year but the Zamboni only happens a few times. (How psyched is the kid riding that?)

Splitting tickets doesn't necessarily have to be sports. It could be theater tickets or any other recurring event. Maybe that guy I live with isn't so nuts after all. GO BIG BLUE! 

Here's Me Finally Aknowledging The Bailout (uh, I mean Rescue Bill)

So my stats have been up this week I think in part because I'm talking about other things besides the bailout bill. I wanted to see how the whole thing played out before reacting. So the bill passed and it's been signed. I guess all we can do now is watch our own finances and cross our fingers that things will work out. Maybe pray.

I love how this went from a "bailout" to a "rescue bill" in two days. Ok, enough of my cynicism.

While I didn't talk bailout, lots of other bloggers and websites had the subject completely covered, if you'd like to read more about it:

First Draft of the Bailout analyzed by Gen X Finance
The ING Savers Pledge at Happy Rock
Fresh Air economy explanation link via Wisebread
A Great Depression Comparison to today via The Wall Street Journal
What Is Money? explained by Get Rich Slowly

Of course if that isn't enough, just check out your favorite news website or do a quick search in your favorite search engine. Talk about information overload!

And just because I haven't said anything doesn't mean I wasn't getting my little ducks in a row. I called my broker and we did a little moving around putting some extra into the market while prices were low. My small town bank where most of my money is remains unaffected. My ING account also remains unaffected. Having well under $100,000 in savings, I am FDIC insured. I guess won't be stashing cash under my mattress for the moment.

If you aren't sure if your money is safe, there is a way to check (besides calling your financial institutions). www.myfdicinsurance.gov has a few simple questions you can answer to see if your accounts/investments are safe.

Happy Friday, and since everything is supposedly going to go well now, why don't you take a little cash from under your floorboards and go get yourself a nice bar of chocolate. Mmmm, endorphins. They're going to save us all!

Roasting A Chicken: More Bang For Your Buck

I love to cook. It's so fun to put forth energy towards a nice meal.

That said, there was a period in life where I ate roast chicken once a week. My dad loved it so my mom made it weekly. My sister and I, both totally sick of it, called a family meeting, requesting that roast chicken be served less frequently. (Looking back on it, that's a silly problem to have. My mom roasted chickens; most people now barely have time to cook a meal for thirty minutes let alone slave for hours over a nice meal for their families. I guess older age gives you perspective!)

So fast forward ten years to an adult more appreciative Nicole, cruising the grocery store on the weekly trip. A certain more carnivorous person in the household kept looking longingly at the meats while a certain more budget concious person let him know that I usually buy meat when it's under $2 a pound unless it's exceptional. Mr. Meat told me good luck on finding that!

Enter a organic whole chicken hanging out with its buddies on the bottom shelf: $1.99 a pound. Score!

So tonight I roasted, tomorrow it's going in enchilladas, the day after on a sandwich mixed with a few grapes, some almonds, and mayo. The bones will be saved for a soup stock, though I may accidently drop a few for the dog to much on.

3 meals, one stock, a dog snack, and $10 later, I see I (and my mom who went before me) made a good choice.

So give a roasted chicken a shot. It's not hard, I swear! And like laundry there is that enormous sense of accomplishment from the small amount of labor that involves taking something, shoving it in a machine, and waiting.

Welcome to the world of adulthood, and deliciousness.

Some additional articles of interest:
Read "Roast chicken, or how to pinch a penny til it screams" (with step by step how to)...
Read "Ten Things To Do With Chicken" at Wisebread for good recipes...

Lakeside Catalog Gifts (Includes Bonus Lesson on Meaning of "Primitive")

My mom and sister were raving about Lakeside catalog the last time I visited. They even made me take home a copy of it. I personally thought the fake 80s jeans comme lounge pants were quite a find for the 80s loving guy in my life so I took the thick catalog with me.

I just started looking through it the other day. Eighty percent of the catalog costs less then $20. It seems to be a lot of knick-knacky stuff, with a strong preference for the "primitive" style of decorating. Now I just tried to look up a definition for primitive and I couldn't find one. While there isn't one online, my sister has taught me the concept by showing me examples in hers and my mother's home decorations. Check out the photo illustration for some examples of primitive and not primitive:

I think you get it. I bet my sister is rolling her eyes as you read this. (I got a little obsessed with pointing out primitive objects to her a few months ago, to the point of annoyance I think.)

So if you like primitive, check out Lakeside Catalog. But don't worry, Lakeside has lots for those who aren't so primitive. Here are ten of my picks from the Lakeside catalog.

1) 80s style lounge pants for your favorite 80s man
2) Little Miss or Mr. Men books for your favorite kiddo (or friend who embodies one the qualities)
3) Taste of Home cookbooks for your favorite cook
4) Book of Useless Information for that guy or gal who has (or knows!) everything
5) AKC Stuffed Animals for your favorite pet who likes to rip the heads off cute plush animals
6) BYO Laptop sleeve for your favorite techie
7) Scrapbooking supplies for your favorite crafter
8) Three canvas photo prints for your favorite nature lover
9) Detoxifying foot patches for your favorite health nut
10) Fake croc wallet clutches for your favorite fashionista

Since we are all going to be spending less money on holiday gifts this year, I'm guessing stores like Lakeside will become more popular.

If you have any discount catalogs you like, do share.